You want to become your best submissive self.
Welcome to Mistress’s personalized training program. “Become Useful” is an erotic coaching experience designed to guide you to submissive self-actualization. With over a decade of experience as a professional dominant and now a separate career as a psychotherapist, I’m thrilled to offer this 6-week-long psychosexual intensive (or a 5-day accelerated version for clients outside of the New York metro area); psychotherapy is my day job, but using similar skills to turn you into a slave is my calling. By the end of our time together, you’ll be collared and given priority appointments for a tribute rate much lower than à la carte sessions. Here’s how it works:
Path #1: Courtship
Recommended for NYC-local subs & existing clients
Path #2: Consultation
Recommended for long-distance devotees & curious newcomers
Time and Tribute
Path #1: Courtship
Recommended for NYC-local subs & existing clients
Stage 1: First date
We begin with a dinner and domination session, similar to the à la carte option. You will be responsible for selecting the restaurant, and you will be assessed, in part, on this choice. I am not necessarily looking for Michelin stars but for overall effort. I highly suggest you do your research first.
Our first play session will likewise function as a test— of your abilities to communicate respectfully, follow directions thoughtfully, and engage openly in the spirit of exploration and experimentation. My goal is to assess compatibility.
Stage 2: Second date
You ask me out to dinner again, understanding that this time I will be selecting the restaurant, and I will be engaging you in a frank discussion of our first engagement: what went well and what might we improve? I ask about your intentions in moving forward with training, what you hope to gain from the program, what you hope to give. My goal is to assess your strengths and weaknesses and to decide how I can most effectively manipulate you.
Stage 3: Acts of service
You demonstrate your usefulness to me, perhaps accompanying me to a spa or on a shopping trip. In return, you are allowed into my exclusive private play space, where you are bound and allowed to watch me do whatever I happen to be in the mood to do. You only watch. The goal is to associate my pleasure with your arousal and heighten your sense of shame.
Stage 4: Acts of surrender
You return to my play space for a proper punishment scene, tailored to your individual limits. If you take your punishment well, you are rewarded— or, I should say, you are allowed to reward yourself. The goal is to associate your shame with your gratification.
Stage 5: Acts of atonement
You join me on a little retreat, perhaps to a bathhouse during off-peak hours or at a beachfront cabin with a jacuzzi. You massage me as I ask you to reflect on what your shame feels like. I engage you in a serious discussion about the fantasy of power versus its reality. The goal is to relieve your shame and restore your sense of self-worth by inspiring you to action, laying the groundwork for your devotion to me.
Stage 6: Celebration
You finally get to enjoy being mine. First, you take us to a restaurant of my choice for oysters and champagne, then back to a hotel room I’ve selected, for the session you’ve been dreaming of all this time. The goal is to associate your submissive sexuality with positive emotions, your obedience leading to my satisfaction— your ultimate reward.
Stage 7: Collaring application
If you’ve truly grown from your experience, and if I deem you a suitable match, then I encourage you to apply for continual service by signing a contract and accepting a collar.
Path #2: Consultation
Recommended for long-distance devotees & curious newcomers
Stage 0: Pre-screening call
You answer my call at an arranged time, and spend ten minutes falling under the spell of my voice. My goal is equal parts to verify and to intrigue.
Stage 1: Video interview
You log onto a video call not unlike a job interview. I am relaxing in my private play space, and you are in business professional attire. We talk through your intentions and, if we both agree to proceed, establish our training schedule. Don’t worry, I expect you’re very busy; I am too. We should be able to find mutually agreed-on times. If you are local, we will plan to meet about once every 5-10 days; if you live outside the NYC metro area, we will identify a one-week period for a fly-me-to-you. My goal during this first stage is to determine how serious you are.
Stage 2: Analysis (& apéritifs)
You meet with me in a quiet cocktail lounge for some psycho(sexual)analysis by way of interrogation. I am assessing your desires and weaknesses, determining how I can best manipulate you to serve my interests. My goal is to determine how pliable you are.
At Stage 3, the two paths converge
Time and Tribute
Money is power, therefore money is hot. In addition to paying for all of those cocktails, spa days, etc., you will pay me because you crave transferring your power in a tangible way, and because you respect the value of my time and attention. Paying tribute is not the goal of your service, however, only a means to achieve it, so there is some flexibility built into the tribute structure. That said, if I am not pleased with your offering at any point, the training program will not continue. And yes, you are free to walk away at any time yourself— primarily because I know you won’t want to.
Time being finite, I have limited availability for committed slaves and expect my roster will be full by 2027, with only the occasional opening. If you’re interested, I encourage you to inquire sooner rather than later.